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		<title>By: Peter Mason</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peter Mason</dc:creator>
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		<description>Thanks to the originator of this tribute.

- Prof Kelly introduced me to anthropology. As a math major (&#039;79 thesis w/ John Leadley), the two anthro. classes I took were eye opening.

- She ran a really good conference, one of the best I had at Reed.

- I saw at Reed, and heard later, that she cut people down. I&#039;m sorry that her great teaching skills had that downside.

- It may have been hard to be a female academic during Prof Kelly&#039;s era. I know that many excellent female Profs at Reed seemed to err on the side of being &quot;TOUGH.&quot; This is in the same way that a female US President would have to do so, today or in the forseeable future.

An anecdote: in the mid 90&#039;s I heard that she was the last professor at Reed who refused to go online. Steve Koblik (Pres at the time) stated this with approval. I, as a longtime technology worker, completely agree.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks to the originator of this tribute.</p>
<p>- Prof Kelly introduced me to anthropology. As a math major (&#8216;79 thesis w/ John Leadley), the two anthro. classes I took were eye opening.</p>
<p>- She ran a really good conference, one of the best I had at Reed.</p>
<p>- I saw at Reed, and heard later, that she cut people down. I&#8217;m sorry that her great teaching skills had that downside.</p>
<p>- It may have been hard to be a female academic during Prof Kelly&#8217;s era. I know that many excellent female Profs at Reed seemed to err on the side of being &#8220;TOUGH.&#8221; This is in the same way that a female US President would have to do so, today or in the forseeable future.</p>
<p>An anecdote: in the mid 90&#8217;s I heard that she was the last professor at Reed who refused to go online. Steve Koblik (Pres at the time) stated this with approval. I, as a longtime technology worker, completely agree.</p>
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		<title>By: Barnard Gage</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barnard Gage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Mar 2006 20:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was one of the men Gail Kelly could reduce to tears.  That was so then.  And apparently her influence can still reach out and do it to me now.  This is so even though our orbits on campus were only tangentially related.

I first met Kelly at my freshman orientation.  Somehow I found myself in individual conversation with her about my future plans on campus.  Hoping for approval, I, nevertheless, ventured to ask her if a combined major in history and anthropology was thinkable, saying that I thought it would be fun to apply ethnological methods to historical research.  Her sarcasm convinced me that it was in fact *not* thinkable.  Over a decade after my graduation my favorite professor as an upperclassman told me that what she really wanted from me was an intellectual defense and that if she had received it she would have been delighted.  I only half believed Michael MacDonald, so the reference to her interest in the Annales School is of considerable interest.  (Kierstadt came after I graduate.)  Still it seems like a lot to ask of someone just leaving the home.  And I knew nothing about her opinion of freshmen in general.

Finding her linked to John Leadley is also evocative.  Leadley was the only person on campus who could share with me a first hand acquantaince of the Lake Wobegon-like town in which he had been an undergraduate and I a faculty brat.  More importantly, I owe to Leadley the recognition that mathematics can indeed be an attractive field to one seeking to lead an intellectual life.  Though it did not change my direction, the Introduction to Mathematical Reasoning and his Paidaeia class were eye-opening.  Having mostly reverted to math phobia I have still to remind myself of how those classes felt.

I met Kelly again as an upperclassman.  The first time in a class in philosophy of the social sciences, which she co-taught with Bill Peck.  They appeared to share the load unequally, though, and I dealt mostly with Peck.  Both of the classes I took from Peck challenged me to think, and they continue to assert an influence on me to stop and ponder my assumptions.  The second time was in her Peoples of the Pacific class, which I took to fulfill my distribution requirements.  I always thought it was a mistake to take it, but allowed myself to be cajoled into it.  I still think I might have done better to take Vaucher&#039;s offering.  Kelly&#039;s sarcasm--rather than any amount of work--seemed to add another irritant to the lot of a senior struggling with his thesis.

Yet for all that our interactions were marginal I have found the writings about her life&#039;s work fascinating from the first.  I do not agree with the suggestion that our affection for her is a case of Stockholm&#039;s syndrome.  Quite the contrary.  The easiest emotion for me to feel is resentment for her.  It was a surprise, then, to discover another opposing emotion.  I&#039;d like to suggest that Kelly was a really a sort of Pandora&#039;s box and that once all the horrors have past something in her life is left that emits a warm and surprisingly gentle glow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was one of the men Gail Kelly could reduce to tears.  That was so then.  And apparently her influence can still reach out and do it to me now.  This is so even though our orbits on campus were only tangentially related.</p>
<p>I first met Kelly at my freshman orientation.  Somehow I found myself in individual conversation with her about my future plans on campus.  Hoping for approval, I, nevertheless, ventured to ask her if a combined major in history and anthropology was thinkable, saying that I thought it would be fun to apply ethnological methods to historical research.  Her sarcasm convinced me that it was in fact *not* thinkable.  Over a decade after my graduation my favorite professor as an upperclassman told me that what she really wanted from me was an intellectual defense and that if she had received it she would have been delighted.  I only half believed Michael MacDonald, so the reference to her interest in the Annales School is of considerable interest.  (Kierstadt came after I graduate.)  Still it seems like a lot to ask of someone just leaving the home.  And I knew nothing about her opinion of freshmen in general.</p>
<p>Finding her linked to John Leadley is also evocative.  Leadley was the only person on campus who could share with me a first hand acquantaince of the Lake Wobegon-like town in which he had been an undergraduate and I a faculty brat.  More importantly, I owe to Leadley the recognition that mathematics can indeed be an attractive field to one seeking to lead an intellectual life.  Though it did not change my direction, the Introduction to Mathematical Reasoning and his Paidaeia class were eye-opening.  Having mostly reverted to math phobia I have still to remind myself of how those classes felt.</p>
<p>I met Kelly again as an upperclassman.  The first time in a class in philosophy of the social sciences, which she co-taught with Bill Peck.  They appeared to share the load unequally, though, and I dealt mostly with Peck.  Both of the classes I took from Peck challenged me to think, and they continue to assert an influence on me to stop and ponder my assumptions.  The second time was in her Peoples of the Pacific class, which I took to fulfill my distribution requirements.  I always thought it was a mistake to take it, but allowed myself to be cajoled into it.  I still think I might have done better to take Vaucher&#8217;s offering.  Kelly&#8217;s sarcasm&#8211;rather than any amount of work&#8211;seemed to add another irritant to the lot of a senior struggling with his thesis.</p>
<p>Yet for all that our interactions were marginal I have found the writings about her life&#8217;s work fascinating from the first.  I do not agree with the suggestion that our affection for her is a case of Stockholm&#8217;s syndrome.  Quite the contrary.  The easiest emotion for me to feel is resentment for her.  It was a surprise, then, to discover another opposing emotion.  I&#8217;d like to suggest that Kelly was a really a sort of Pandora&#8217;s box and that once all the horrors have past something in her life is left that emits a warm and surprisingly gentle glow.</p>
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		<title>By: anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Mar 2006 22:33:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I never her had her - but she coined one of my most favorite phrases. After a friend failed the qual, she said, &quot;Have you considered dance?&quot; Far better than &quot;don&#039;t quit your day job.&quot; Rest in peace Gail!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never her had her &#8211; but she coined one of my most favorite phrases. After a friend failed the qual, she said, &#8220;Have you considered dance?&#8221; Far better than &#8220;don&#8217;t quit your day job.&#8221; Rest in peace Gail!</p>
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		<title>By: Alex</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2005 20:18:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve often thought there might be more than a little to truth to that idea, Sharon.</description>
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		<title>By: Sharon Pinkerton</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharon Pinkerton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2005 19:40:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>perhaps the love many of us felt for Gail Kelly is a variation on Stockholm Syndrome</description>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2005 18:28:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chris Brown&#039;s recollections are perfectly consistent with the Gail Kelly I knew as an undergraduate in the late sixties and early seventies, when she was bumping up against the tail-end of her White Goddess phase. (Memo to Alex: Even then, she wasn&#039;t all that, though she obviously took a different view.)  I give to Harvard and not to Reed at least partly because of how I feel about a school that celebrates Kelly as &quot;a model teacher.&quot;

I can&#039;t and wouldn&#039;t quarrel with those above who credit Kelly with helping them in their careers. But I wonder about all those other students -- the majority, I would think -- who were also paying customers at Reed. Did they get their money&#039;s worth from a teacher who was so pathologically rude and aggressive? (Not something that could be said about the courses taught by Sam Danon -- to pick a name out of the hat -- or Owen Ulph, John Tomsich, Price Zimmerman, Bill Peck, the great Ed Garlan, or even crazy old Seth Ulman.) I can&#039;t remember -- did Gail Kelly have her own Hum 101 sections? She must not have, or the trees in front of Eliot would have been festooned with dangling 18-year-olds every other week.

Looking back, I remember all too many Reed professors who blatantly exploited their teenage students -- some by seducing them, others by &quot;tormenting&quot; them, and at least a couple who could manage both feats at once. I realize that most of you feel those &quot;torments&quot; were all for the good -- are you now closet Benthamites? -- but how many of you really think that Kelly did it to help *you* rather to gratify something broken in herself? If we are summing up a life, don&#039;t motives still matter? 

P.S. Who was someone named &quot;Kelly&quot; to slur the Scots?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris Brown&#8217;s recollections are perfectly consistent with the Gail Kelly I knew as an undergraduate in the late sixties and early seventies, when she was bumping up against the tail-end of her White Goddess phase. (Memo to Alex: Even then, she wasn&#8217;t all that, though she obviously took a different view.)  I give to Harvard and not to Reed at least partly because of how I feel about a school that celebrates Kelly as &#8220;a model teacher.&#8221;</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t and wouldn&#8217;t quarrel with those above who credit Kelly with helping them in their careers. But I wonder about all those other students &#8212; the majority, I would think &#8212; who were also paying customers at Reed. Did they get their money&#8217;s worth from a teacher who was so pathologically rude and aggressive? (Not something that could be said about the courses taught by Sam Danon &#8212; to pick a name out of the hat &#8212; or Owen Ulph, John Tomsich, Price Zimmerman, Bill Peck, the great Ed Garlan, or even crazy old Seth Ulman.) I can&#8217;t remember &#8212; did Gail Kelly have her own Hum 101 sections? She must not have, or the trees in front of Eliot would have been festooned with dangling 18-year-olds every other week.</p>
<p>Looking back, I remember all too many Reed professors who blatantly exploited their teenage students &#8212; some by seducing them, others by &#8220;tormenting&#8221; them, and at least a couple who could manage both feats at once. I realize that most of you feel those &#8220;torments&#8221; were all for the good &#8212; are you now closet Benthamites? &#8212; but how many of you really think that Kelly did it to help *you* rather to gratify something broken in herself? If we are summing up a life, don&#8217;t motives still matter? </p>
<p>P.S. Who was someone named &#8220;Kelly&#8221; to slur the Scots?</p>
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		<title>By: chris brown</title>
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		<dc:creator>chris brown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2005 02:24:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I enjoyed reading the memorial to Gail Kelly. I was one of her students, and I recognized much of my own experiences in the various musings here. I agree, for instance, that although she could be cruel (more than once I witnessed her reduce students in her classes to tears), she was also intellectually demanding, and I learned a great deal from her. She doesnâ€™t make my list of all-time best teachers, largely because of her complete lack of participation/feedback/guidance on my thesis, but itâ€™s a close call. 
However I disagree with one claim Iâ€™ve read here: that she did what was best for her students. I was a good student; I got Aâ€™s in her classes; I passed my junior qual unconditionally the first time I took it (the only one in my cohort to do so). After I graduated, I decided that it would be a good idea to go out and see the world a little bit before trying grad school. After all, Iâ€™d gone straight from high school through Reed in four years. She was strongly opposed to that plan, telling me that â€œgraduate schools want serious students, they donâ€™t want you to go messing around somewhere.â€ I ignored her advice and went to live in Japan, and to travel pretty extensively in Nepal, Thailand, Korea, and Indonesia. Then I was ready to go to graduate school. I asked Gail for a letter of recommendation; I even took the unusual step of asking her directly if she would write me a favorable letter or not, to which she replied that she would. 
I was rejected from every school I applied to in that first year. I was a little surprised until one professor whoâ€™d been part of an admissions review committee took pity on me and told me about the contents of her letter, which stated that I was not a serious student, was hostile to the discipline of anthropology, and they shouldnâ€™t take me. I subsequently asked Gail if it was true thatâ€™s what sheâ€™d written, and she said it was. 
So I canâ€™t join in the ranks of students praising Gail Kelly for her intellectual rigor or honesty, and it is simply bizarre to say that she was supportive of her students in general. I would have respected her if sheâ€™d had the guts to tell me to my face that her â€˜recommendationâ€™ would be negative, but the fact that she lied to me made a mockery of all her hard-nosed posturing in the classroom. Sure, we read some materials quite closely, and I still value that, though I now know how inaccurate some of her readings and critiques were. But Iâ€™ve had truly great, intellectually rigorous teachers, at reed and elsewhere, and she wasnâ€™t one of them.
Oh, by the way, the next year I applied without her letter of recommendation and was accepted to several good schools. And every other professor Iâ€™ve ever asked has said going out in the world for some direct experience rather than heading straight to grad school is not only a good idea, itâ€™s a huge positive factor on an application to study anthropology. Iâ€™m currently writing up my dissertation based on Fulbright-Hays sponsored research in Java, and Iâ€™m sure Gail wouldnâ€™t have approved.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed reading the memorial to Gail Kelly. I was one of her students, and I recognized much of my own experiences in the various musings here. I agree, for instance, that although she could be cruel (more than once I witnessed her reduce students in her classes to tears), she was also intellectually demanding, and I learned a great deal from her. She doesnâ€™t make my list of all-time best teachers, largely because of her complete lack of participation/feedback/guidance on my thesis, but itâ€™s a close call.<br />
However I disagree with one claim Iâ€™ve read here: that she did what was best for her students. I was a good student; I got Aâ€™s in her classes; I passed my junior qual unconditionally the first time I took it (the only one in my cohort to do so). After I graduated, I decided that it would be a good idea to go out and see the world a little bit before trying grad school. After all, Iâ€™d gone straight from high school through Reed in four years. She was strongly opposed to that plan, telling me that â€œgraduate schools want serious students, they donâ€™t want you to go messing around somewhere.â€ I ignored her advice and went to live in Japan, and to travel pretty extensively in Nepal, Thailand, Korea, and Indonesia. Then I was ready to go to graduate school. I asked Gail for a letter of recommendation; I even took the unusual step of asking her directly if she would write me a favorable letter or not, to which she replied that she would.<br />
I was rejected from every school I applied to in that first year. I was a little surprised until one professor whoâ€™d been part of an admissions review committee took pity on me and told me about the contents of her letter, which stated that I was not a serious student, was hostile to the discipline of anthropology, and they shouldnâ€™t take me. I subsequently asked Gail if it was true thatâ€™s what sheâ€™d written, and she said it was.<br />
So I canâ€™t join in the ranks of students praising Gail Kelly for her intellectual rigor or honesty, and it is simply bizarre to say that she was supportive of her students in general. I would have respected her if sheâ€™d had the guts to tell me to my face that her â€˜recommendationâ€™ would be negative, but the fact that she lied to me made a mockery of all her hard-nosed posturing in the classroom. Sure, we read some materials quite closely, and I still value that, though I now know how inaccurate some of her readings and critiques were. But Iâ€™ve had truly great, intellectually rigorous teachers, at reed and elsewhere, and she wasnâ€™t one of them.<br />
Oh, by the way, the next year I applied without her letter of recommendation and was accepted to several good schools. And every other professor Iâ€™ve ever asked has said going out in the world for some direct experience rather than heading straight to grad school is not only a good idea, itâ€™s a huge positive factor on an application to study anthropology. Iâ€™m currently writing up my dissertation based on Fulbright-Hays sponsored research in Java, and Iâ€™m sure Gail wouldnâ€™t have approved.</p>
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		<title>By: Kaori O'Connor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kaori O'Connor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Oct 2005 07:05:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Alex,
Your memoir of Gail made me laugh out loud - a laugh of delight and recognition. Capturing Gail is like capturing quicksilver, but you did it. I remember a joke she told in Anthro Theory. The  anthropologist was sitting at the edge of a clearing, watching all the natives in the village perform a ritual. Then he noticed a native sitting on a log, not far away.  &#039;Why aren&#039;t you dancing in the clearing like everyone else?&#039; the anthropologist asked him. &#039;Oh, I don&#039;t go in for all of that&#039; the native replied. Cue for one of Gail&#039;s cat-like smiles. I adored Gail. She was and is a goddess. So, going back to the Anthropology of Fashion, there should be some sartorial way of marking membership in her cult. I suppose a t-shirt is the only thing that would fit us all. Black? Red? Customised with rhinestones? Striped? Printed with a symbol, and if so, what? What do you think she&#039;d say? Thanks for the memory. Aloha, Kaori</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Alex,<br />
Your memoir of Gail made me laugh out loud &#8211; a laugh of delight and recognition. Capturing Gail is like capturing quicksilver, but you did it. I remember a joke she told in Anthro Theory. The  anthropologist was sitting at the edge of a clearing, watching all the natives in the village perform a ritual. Then he noticed a native sitting on a log, not far away.  &#8216;Why aren&#8217;t you dancing in the clearing like everyone else?&#8217; the anthropologist asked him. &#8216;Oh, I don&#8217;t go in for all of that&#8217; the native replied. Cue for one of Gail&#8217;s cat-like smiles. I adored Gail. She was and is a goddess. So, going back to the Anthropology of Fashion, there should be some sartorial way of marking membership in her cult. I suppose a t-shirt is the only thing that would fit us all. Black? Red? Customised with rhinestones? Striped? Printed with a symbol, and if so, what? What do you think she&#8217;d say? Thanks for the memory. Aloha, Kaori</p>
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		<title>By: Chip Krakoff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chip Krakoff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2005 17:18:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, like most people, occasionally Google my own name to see what pops up. I was quite surprised to see my name on a blog devoted to Gail Kelly as a guy &quot;completely oblivious to the unspoken social rules of Gail’s classes. He even sometimes ate his lunch in class, ignoring her glares or the warning cringes of his fellow students.&quot;

I don&#039;t exactly recall this event (or did it happen many times?) though I do remember I sometimes would bring a bag of clementines or tangerines to class and pass them around. 

Glares and warning cringes aside, I got good grades from her, especially in Weberian Themes in Social Anthropology, which is one of the two or three best classes I ever took in 18 years of education (another was 17th century French drama by Sam Danon and the other was a class in religious symbolism by Robert Segal who was denied tenure at Reed but later got it at Stanford).

Most of the remarks about Gail are correct. Though an Anthropology major (with Gail as my faculty but not my thesis advisor), I never shared in the total fascination - obsession? - with her that many others in the department had. I also never felt the intense fear that other seem to have felt and in fact I don&#039;t recall that any of her criticisms - of me at any rate - were all that harsh. 

What redeemed her withering criticism was that she applied the same high standards to herself as she did to others. Back in those days before self-esteem became the major goal of human endeavor she dared to demand and expect excellence and to criticize those who failed to achieve it. Plus, she had style, so her insults were worth hearing, even if directed at oneself.

As for pleasing her, once she knew that I shared her appreciation of the music of the great avant-garde jazz pianist Cecil Taylor she perhaps decided I was not completely beyond redemption. She did encourage me not to apply to graduate school in anthropology, for which advice I am forever in her debt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, like most people, occasionally Google my own name to see what pops up. I was quite surprised to see my name on a blog devoted to Gail Kelly as a guy &#8220;completely oblivious to the unspoken social rules of Gail’s classes. He even sometimes ate his lunch in class, ignoring her glares or the warning cringes of his fellow students.&#8221;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t exactly recall this event (or did it happen many times?) though I do remember I sometimes would bring a bag of clementines or tangerines to class and pass them around. </p>
<p>Glares and warning cringes aside, I got good grades from her, especially in Weberian Themes in Social Anthropology, which is one of the two or three best classes I ever took in 18 years of education (another was 17th century French drama by Sam Danon and the other was a class in religious symbolism by Robert Segal who was denied tenure at Reed but later got it at Stanford).</p>
<p>Most of the remarks about Gail are correct. Though an Anthropology major (with Gail as my faculty but not my thesis advisor), I never shared in the total fascination &#8211; obsession? &#8211; with her that many others in the department had. I also never felt the intense fear that other seem to have felt and in fact I don&#8217;t recall that any of her criticisms &#8211; of me at any rate &#8211; were all that harsh. </p>
<p>What redeemed her withering criticism was that she applied the same high standards to herself as she did to others. Back in those days before self-esteem became the major goal of human endeavor she dared to demand and expect excellence and to criticize those who failed to achieve it. Plus, she had style, so her insults were worth hearing, even if directed at oneself.</p>
<p>As for pleasing her, once she knew that I shared her appreciation of the music of the great avant-garde jazz pianist Cecil Taylor she perhaps decided I was not completely beyond redemption. She did encourage me not to apply to graduate school in anthropology, for which advice I am forever in her debt.</p>
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		<title>By: Sharon Pinkerton</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharon Pinkerton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2005 03:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The boys and I (Sharon) of the Pink Table Company recently learned of the death of our first and only customer.  We made our first delivery to Gail Kelly Memorial Day weekend of 1977 and after that made several home and postal deliveries, ending in 2000.  We will miss her greatly and wish to make a request: Could you serve the food and drink on a pink table, and perhaps you could have flamingo feathers in the air.
with sadness, we now sign off forever,
Sharon and the boys of the PTC</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The boys and I (Sharon) of the Pink Table Company recently learned of the death of our first and only customer.  We made our first delivery to Gail Kelly Memorial Day weekend of 1977 and after that made several home and postal deliveries, ending in 2000.  We will miss her greatly and wish to make a request: Could you serve the food and drink on a pink table, and perhaps you could have flamingo feathers in the air.<br />
with sadness, we now sign off forever,<br />
Sharon and the boys of the PTC</p>
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