Remembering Gail Kelly

Gail Margaret Kelly, my undergraduate adviser and the woman responsible for my choice of anthropology as a vocation, passed away yesterday. Readers of the blog might remember that my friend Thomas Strong and I recently organized a conference in honor of Profesor Kelly entitled Fashioning Anthropology in which students from across her forty year career at Reed College paid tribute to the influence she had on their career. As Joel Robbins noted in a recent email to the Association for the Social Anthropology of Oceania informing the group of her passing, “no fewer than five of the scheduled papers at that event were by students of hers who had gone on to do graduate work focused on Melanesia,” noted Robbins, and although “She did not seek much attention for herself beyond Reed’s campus” and thus “many ASAO members may not realize how important she has been to our field… her influence on those she taught and mentored, her impact on our corner of the anthropological world has been quite deep.”

Professor Kelly (never ‘Gail’) is a difficult woman to memorialize because she was simultaneously unknown to the wider world of scholarship and an unmissable presence on the Reed College campus. There is an additional paradox that must be frankly dealt with as well: although many of us consider her to be the epitome of the teacher and mentor some people (perhaps most?) disliked her, often intensely. In fact, her ability to humiliate and anger students was sufficiently strong that one person responded to our initial invitation to attend the conference not to accept, but to let us know how, two decades after all her graduation, the memory of Professor Kelly still angered her. “Ms. Kelly’s contribution to my academic education was stifling and intimidating,” she wrote, “teaching to the few she deemed worthy of her attention instead of looking to inspire all of her Anthropology students.” Another friend of mine (who did not major in anthropology) remembered Professor Kelly recently along similar lines, but in a way more in keeping with her spirit: “She was mean to people, but only the ones who deserved it.” She was so intimidating that she was named the “scariest college professor” in Portland by one of the local papers. As anthropology major turned international drug smuggler and possible zooerast Doug Spink summarized, “Put simply, Gail’s is the sharpest mind under which I’ve ever studied. Not in the grandstanding sense of self-importance, but rather in the literal sense of cutting, quick, and deadly effective. She had no tolerance for students without intellectual depth and a high work ethic. She expected more, something of interest, presented with flair, substance, and intellectual rigor.”

Trying to understand how Professor Kelly could be admired as a great mentor while simultaneously disliked by many around her requires understanding the woman capable of evoking such contradictory responses. My memory (written with the help of the Internet and not much else) is that she was born in Portland Oregon in 1933 [update: I was wrong about this, she was born in Deer Park, WA] and attended Reed College as an undergraduate. Like many anthropology students she wrote about Wasco-Wishram culture, the Native North American group that David French, the dean of anthropology at Reed, had worked with and knew well. Her thesis applied Morris Opler’s idea of ‘themes’ to her material, and she graduated in 1955. She pursued graduate studies in anthropology at the University of Chicago. There she grew interested in the project on new nations that was active at the time, and was particularly influenced by Edward Shils and the Committee On Social Thought. Professor Kelly wrote an MA on social organization in the Northwest Coast that was in keeping with her Boasian Reed background, and then turned to Africa for her dissertation on “The Ghanaian Intelligentsia” and graduated in 1959. If I remember correctly there was a bit of concern that she had not done fieldwork as part of the thesis and was perhaps distant from the department, and Shils had to vouch for her work. Shortly after completing the dissertation she conducted 18 months of fieldwork in Ghana — partly in order to satisfy the anthropology department — of which I rarely heard her speak at length. She returned to Reed in 1960 after publishing an essay in Bert Hoselitz’s collection “A Reader’s Guide To The Social Sciences” and continued to teach there for the next forty years. Between 1976 and 2000 she advised over 60 thesis students, including me, and is probably responsible for close to 100 undergraduate theses written at Reed.

In Professor Kelly’s classes ‘anthropology’ meant ‘British Social Anthropology’. Even by during her time as a student at Reed the anthropology department had an unusually strong tradition of excellence with links to the Boasian tradition. David French was a student of Opler, who taught at Reed (although not during Kelly’s time there), as did Alexander Goldenweiser. But as far as I can tell her experience at Chicago aligned Professor Kelly her much more closely with the synthetic project of sociology. I went through my entire undergraduate education with her without reading Boas, Sapir, Lowie, Benedict, or other Boasians. The exception to this was Coming of Age in Samoa, which we read in Intro Anthropology so, as she put it, “You can say you’ve read a book by Margaret Mead.”

As macrotheorists go she focused on a very Parsonian (now considered tendentious) reading of Weber and, above all, Durkheim. Marx was something that I had to learn about in the political science department — I think Professor Kelly considered him a cargo cultist slightly less interesting than Yali — and Freud was simply never mentioned, except perhaps occasionally as we dismissed all psychological theories as studying phenomenon ineffable and transitory when compared to objective, enduring social facts. Adam Smith never even appeared. Professor Kelly’s interest in ‘the classics’ of social theory was the legendary flip side of her immersion in a sort of Parsonian synthesis of social science — she had come of age intellectually, after all, when Parson’s two volume reader in “Theories of Society” was creating a cannon of the ‘sociological tradition’ out of imported European theories, and authors like Henry Sumner Maine, Fustel de Coulanges, and William Robertson Smith were considered to be important theorists worth reading in their own right, not merely for historical interest. She lamented the retranslation of Mauss’s Essai Sur Le Don and continued to speak of ‘prestations’ rather than ‘gifts’.

Our ‘Advanced Social Anthropology’ class started with The Andaman Islanders (ALL of it) and ended with Political Systems of Highland Burma. Our ‘Social Theory’ course involved a close reading of The Division of Labor in Society — indeed, a page by page examination of each passage and footnote as if it was holy writ. Her Religion and Ritual course focused on Elementary Forms of the Religious Life. In fact I took them back to back, discussing Elementary Forms for an hour and a half, waiting fifteen minutes, moving to another classroom, and then discussing Division of Labor. All of her classes during my time at Reed had titles like this. “Gifts and Goods,” “Millenarianism,” “Religion and Ritual,” and so forth. Professor Kelly was not opposed to other disciplines. All right-thinking anthropology majors obediently shuffled off to take Ray Kierstead’s course on the Annales School since these historians were considered cousins of the Annee Sociologique. Equally, at an earlier stage in her career she was quite interested in the philosophical literature on cultural relativism and alternate rationalites and co-taught a course on it with Bill Peck. Equally, she was not opposed to novelty, particularly in ethnography. The Gender of the Gift — hardly your traditional ethnography — figured prominently in her Gifts and Good Class. She dismissed (disastrously, I later realized) Bakhtin as worthless, but picked up on the work of Bruno Latour a decade before mainstream anthropology would discover him. But above all she valued the classics.

She viewed the academic world in the highly personalistic terms more familiar to those familiar with the tangled social web of indy rock bands or the private lives of celebrities. The key to the Fortes-Leach debate (which we read. In intro anthropology.) was not the way that Leach was beginning, based on his reading of Levi-Strauss, to articulate a theory of alliance rather than descent. What mattered was, we were told, that Fortes had to pass through Leach’s office in order to reach his own, thus making confrontation inevitable. She could be very candid about the world of anthropology and its characters. She was quite frank in saying that most anthropologists simply didn’t read half the books they talked about — something I thought impossible until I got to graduate school, and realized the value of being able to call someone on the minor details of Divinity and Experience Amongst The Dinka. It was this sort of gossipy, informal approach to these books — who was teaching where, and so forth, that made this work come alive for us and informs my own sense of intellectual history (which is as good a description of what she taught as ‘anthropology’ is) to this day.

Nevertheless, it is difficult for me to remember exactly what I read for each class because I did not have a sense when I was an anthropology major that I was reading for a class. One of the participants at the Fashioning Anthropology conference remarked on Professor Kelly’s well-known penchant for having syllabi that did not include lists of books or even very explicit lists of reading. He remembered when he asked her why this was that she responded “Because I do not consider you responsible for a set list of books. I consider you responsible for the entire literature.” The entire literature: this was her all over. I remember her remarking in class to us that “being an anthropology major doesn’t just mean doing the reading for class. It means reading the latest journals, checking used bookstores, keeping up with the field as a whole.” She was serious. My office hours with her consisted of me mentioning a topic of interest, and then her suggesting that I read a book on the topic. Further meetings would include a discussion of the book and then mention of another book ‘I might like to look into.’ If I hasn’t read it by the next time I saw her, stony silence ensued that made it clear to me she wondered what I was doing in her office. The result was basically another independent study course that stretched over my three years as an anthropology major, combined with the development of a keen interest in what was being published and what sorts of things were being ordered or, more telling, remaindered and sold used at Powell’s. There were no secondary sources (although some of us found them out on our own and read them secretly), there was only the primary text. We did not skim. We did not skip. We read books closely, and in their entirety. It was the beginning of a total immersion in the life of the mind.

But of course in the end, nothing was good enough for Professor Kelly. The idea that you could do anything to please her simply never occurred to us — the goal was simply to mitigate as much as possible her aloof disdain at your inevitable failure. In fact despite the fact that I was one of her most successful students — close enough to her to organize a conference in her honor — I consistently earned Bs and B-s in her class. The sole exception to this was her Weberian Themes in Social Anthropology Course, in which she begrudged me an A-. This was only the smallest part of the humiliation that one suffered at her hands. In order to be admitted to the anthropology major one had to take a junior qualifying exam which consisted of something like 5 4 page essays written in a single, morning-long examination on a reading list of 10 or so books which one had to read in addition to one’s usual coursework. It is telling of Professor Kelly’s (impossible) standards that in the class before mine — a class that would send students to SOAS, The University of Chicago, and Princeton, among other schools — no one passed the qualifying exam unconditionally, and everyone had to rewrite their answers. In fact, I myself did not pass when I took my qual, and had to rewrite a question (I believe it was a comparison of Levi-Strauss’s hot/cold distinction to Appadurai’s theory of global flows).

As my discussion of her intellectual habits suggests, Professor Kelly was a conservative in the best meaning of that word. She had a keen appreciation of tradition — both scholarly and otherwise — and was aware of how the oft-invisible rules of our heritage made our life more meaningful and worthwhile. She combined this love of etiquette, fashion, and manners with a cool blondism (her beauty, though long past when I met her, was something we had all heard of) and mixed it with a good deal of condescension to the degraded state of the world in which she was forced to live. At one point after a recent sexual harassment scandal that resulted in a policy of no closed-door meetings with students, she invited one of my classmates in to her office for an office hour and — in violation of the policy but in keeping with Reed’s long-standing tradition — instructed him to close the door. “Unless,” she added, transforming momentarily into Grace Kelly, “you think I’m going to rape you or something.” The unease that many of us felt around her was the sense that we were in violation of secret rules of which only she was aware. She told one student of Scots descent that his shortcomings as a person were due to the fact that he “was descended from a race that subsisted entirely on oats and apples.” Professor Kelly was the kind of person who could ruin my day by archly noting that I — a Californian raised in t shirts and shorts who attended her classes in tie-dyed t shirts, hair below my shoulders, and mutton chops — was wearing white after labor day. We were often put in intimidating and uncomfortable social situations. There were rumors of her hiring her male students (she had few female students) to act as waiters at cocktail parties and dressing them in tuxedos. Our mandatory weekly thesis meetings occurred early on Sunday mornings at a local coffee shop where she would hold court in an overstuffed chair. At 7 or 8 in the morning — a brutal time for a hung-over college student — she would ring you up and tell you what time to arrive. Bleary-eyed students would dully appear, join her and her previous student, chat together until she dismissed the one she was finished with, and then met with you. This enforced salon continued until she had met with all of her students.

Anthropological critiques of a denial of coevalness seem hopelessly inapplicable to Professor Kelly, since she considered no one to be her equal. Similarly, she was unabashedly interested in the exotic because it was not boring. On more than one occasion she told me that the most important thing in life was not to be bored, and often mentioned that Malinowski ought to have put this directly after food and shelter on his list of human needs. It was clear that she kept me around because I was not boring, and I think this was how she chose her students (and make no mistake about it, she chose you as an advisee, not the other way around). She had the keen eye for ethnographic detail that only comes from a life time of shopping. Her interest in Melanesia was undoubtedly due to how strange people were there, but she also found the average Oregonian exotic. Why, for instance, did people wear baseball caps backwards? Why in the 1970s did all of her students, as she put it, “walk around dressed up like Oscar Wilde”? She mused on the totemic significance of the icons that allowed one to identify which part of town different buses went to. “We,” she would say definitely of Reedies and other people living in southwest Portland, “are people are the beaver.” She would then arch one eyebrow as if to suggest that there was perhaps something unpleasant about the people of the Deer, Raindrop, and Rose — Portland’s three other neighborhoods — that would require us to exchange shell valuables or wampum with them. How could critiques of anthropology’s authority or colonial background touch a woman who didn’t buy the idea of cultural relativism (or even tolerance) in the first place? This was the person, after all, who described hippyism in a lecture as “hedonism if it had been invented by puritans” and who remarked to me once that people spit in public “because they wanted to be disgusting and were disgusting.” In fact she considered freshmen to be inhuman and refused to have anything to do with them — you were not allowed to take Intro to Anthropology until you were sophomore. She knew how to play hard to get.

Professor Kelly was the ultimate in sink-or-swim professors, and I look back on my time as her student with some ambivalence. I spent a lot of graduate school unlearning my dysfunctional ways of coping with authority figures and advisers, and it wasn’t until the final years of my program at Chicago that I developed a friendship and rapport with the chair of my committee. But ultimately I owe her more than she owes me. She taught me how to live the life of the mind, and instilled me in that the only reason people cannot achieve great things is that they believe they cannot. She gave me the ability to become whoever I wanted to be in life, and taught me that anthropology was a part of living it. When Tom and I picked her up at her house to drive her to the conference, we both wondered aloud at the beauty of Oregon in the fall as if, despite our years at Reed, we were seeing it for the first time. “Yes,” she said quietly, “you don’t notice these thing when you’re young, you know.” It was a moment that helped remind me that I owe Professor Kelly not just for what I have learned from her so far, but for the continuing role her teaching will play in my life as it unfolds in the future.

  1. Graham’s avatar

    Thank you, Alex.

    John Leadley also died this spring. He and his work had only “half” the impact on me that Gail Kelly’s did on you: he was just the man who made me realize that I wanted to be a mathematician (and specifically an algebraist). He and I never spoke much after that sophomore-year class in Abstract Algebra that Kira and Nick took with me. Meister was his student; I merely soaked up the esthetic from him: abstraction, functors, categories.

    I’m disappointed with myself that I never told John what he meant to me and how he shaped my career, my life. I know that Gail knew what an impact she had on you, and I know she was proud of it.

  2. Ian’s avatar

    In honor of Professor Kelly’s memory (and she is the only Reed professor I do not refer to by first name) I wanted to expand on some of your reminiscences.

    When Professor Kelly dressed me down for being Scottish it was “raised entirely on apples, oatmeal and whiskey.” Which was a little insulting before I realized that I had, in fact, consumed each of those things within the last week. The fact that Adam Smith did not appear in the Intro syllabus could be taken by a random reader to mean she did not like Smith. Quite the contrary, she was an involved and welcome participant in the Scottish Enlightenment class she audited and was obviously appreciative of Smith. Finally, when Professor Kelly talked about the Beaver clan it was much funnier. In discussing totemic animals, she said that since the Brown Beaver bus line passed by Reed we would all be “people of the beaver” and as such we would not eat any beaver. She expounded, “One would not expect Bo (a bright, female, anthro major in the class) to be walking around with a bit of beaver hanging out of her mouth.”

    Her expectation of class attendance, that you should call and ask permission not to show up, terrified me so much that it was the only class at Reed for which I attended every session. This led to an embarrassing episode where I was so ill and high on cough suppressant that the only recollection I have of the class is speaking academic gibberish and not being able to stop. Professor Kelly would call on students who did not want to talk, usually to flush them out and expose their ignorance or lack of preparation. But sometimes it was to expose shy, but bright students, who just didn’t talk that much. As for those who were pilloried in class, tough shit – you should have done the reading.

    I really liked Professor Kelly. I wasn’t an anthro major so the gauntlet Alex describes above didn’t exist for me. But I never achieved at any level of scholarship with cool, laid back professors – only the demanding ones. I just wish I had sent her those dozen roses I had always thought of sending.

  3. Betsy (Betzenderfer) Rice’s avatar

    Are you sure her middle name is/was Margaret? I’m convinced it was Monica, though I can see how she might have kept that quiet, particularly in recent years. I have to tell you I laughed until I cried reading your descriptions. The bit about wearing white after Labor Day had me on the floor. I’m a female advisee from 25 years before your time. Female advisees were rare then, too. And though she was eccentric and demanding even as a much younger woman, I think I’m lucky to have made it through when I did. But then my thesis was the foundation for my dissertation, so there may have been a point to those demands after all.

  4. Amy Propps’s avatar

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  5. Chris Roth’s avatar

    Thanks for this remembrance, Alex. Gail’s death is a colossal blow. She was one of anthropology’s enduring unforgettable personalities, she was 100% committed to her students, she was in absolute control of her subject matter to a degree that is rare anywhere, and she is absolutely and completely irreplaceable.

  6. Robert Fernea’s avatar

    I’ve lost a classmate. Actually, Gail was a year behind me, but David French and Howard Jolly didn’t have so many students then; we knew each other very well. Some of us drank red wine and listened to Pete Seeger on the floor of an apartment off of 39th street. But not Gail. She early established a conventional place for herself, which Edward Shils made holy. She was not part of our left wing position.

    Gail had a sharp tongue and little time for those she thought witless. I loved to gossip with her. Students and faculty were both fair game. We kidded with professial discourse and shared a sense of unquestionable superiority. Yes, we were superior then. I hope she had a happy private life afterward.

  7. Alex’s avatar

    Thanks for sharing your memories, everyone. I’d be particularly interested in hearing more about Professor Kelly’s time at Chicago and Reed (as a student) — I’m tentatively putting together a festschrift that will likely have a long biographical essay in the introduction. Feel free to email me (see the ‘email’ button on the upper-left hand corner of this blog) if you’d be interested in participating and/or sending along a more extended, private reminiscence.

  8. Robert McCullough’s avatar

    Confort food and the dialectic

    Karen Tosi and I were not Gail’s students. Answering the question why I dressed like Oscar Wilde, it was simply because he looked so damn good. Our friendship with Gail blossomed after Reed. Phil Murthe and Gail would appear at the Towne Crier for martinis and conversations cribbed from Noel Coward several times a week. Martinis and delicate double entendres were the order of the day, followed by soul healing pot roast and au gratin potatos.

    Phil is long gone, but Gail adopted us when we returned from grad school. Gradually, she defined her role as our cultural arbatrix. It was her intervention that caused us to buy Rex Aragon’s house. When she had advisory meetings with the manager of Saks or Tiffany’s, we would learn the plans for our affluent lifestyle from the source.

    Gail was a frequent visitor at dinner. Often we would find her sitting at our table at the Heathman even before we arrived or knew she had been invited.

    Above all, there was the conversation. To misquote Milton Friedman, “We are all polymaths now.” I will miss her for many resasons, but not least the loss of a foil for my analysis of Wa’habism and economic development.

    On Thursday we hosted a fund raiser for Our House and when the bell rang early, I truly expected Gail to greet me with a trenchaqnt comment and a request for a dry martini. God, I wish she had haunted us just a bit in this way.

    Lance Mars and I are discussing a wake for Gail tomorrow at breakfast. Send us your ideas to robert@mresearch.com or marrsl@hasson.com with your advice. I, personally, am leaning towards Saphire gin in the St. Johns room at the Heathman. Perhaps Gail will attend. I’ll keep a glass filled just in case.

  9. Rachel Mason’s avatar

    REMEMBERING GAIL KELLY

    I went to Reed between 1972 and 1977, and Gail Kelly was an important part of my education. I took five classes with her: Introduction to Anthropology, Peoples of the Pacific (PeepPac), Advanced Social Anthropology, Anthro Theory, and Weberian Themes in Anthro. I never did take Peasant Societies, although I feel as if I did because Miss Kelly was always referring it in her other classes. My Reed thesis was an attempt to apply Victor Turner’s methodological concept of the social drama to the early 20th-century Hopi. I started out with Miss Kelly as my thesis advisor, but when she went on sabbatical in January I finished the thesis with David French. Miss Kelly’s comment on my topic was that if I could pull it off, “we’re all going to be rich!” Sadly, this hasn’t happened yet.

    Even as an ignorant freshman in Intro to Anthro, I could see that Miss Kelly was presenting a rather skewed picture of anthropology. We skipped almost all the American anthropologists and went right to Durkheim. I was a tabula rasa, though, and Durkheimian concepts like anomie and complementary and segmentary solidarity underlie my entire thinking about society. It wasn’t until I was in graduate school that I heard “structure-functionalist” used as an insult. I am grateful for the years with Miss Kelly before I heard that s-f was bad.

    The first time I saw Gail Kelly was on the first day of Intro Anthro in 1972, probably after Labor Day. She was wearing a sailor-striped knit top and a snowy white skirt. I knew nothing about fashion, but I was quite impressed by this outfit and subsequent ones.
    I can imagine that Miss Kelly never had anything but contempt for my mode of dress, hairstyles, and general presentation of self. I remember her looking one of my 70s-girl ensembles—bandanna on lank hair, patched sweater, homemade ankle-length corduroy skirt, and worn-out hiking boots—up and down with interested horror.

    Gail was present at a visit to someone’s (Dell and Ginny Hymes?) mountain cabin with Michael Silverstein, David French, and some other people. Jena Camp, Lydie Brissonet, and I were the only students, included because of our employment as Dr. French’s assistants (he wittily shouted “I brought the girls!” as we entered the room). Gail and Michael Silverstein donned aprons to serve the food and drink. Gail declared with passion that the only fashionable women these days were transvestites.

    In class one time, in order to demonstrate that men and women perceive colors differently, she asked us all to name the color of Wendell Scott’s shirt. “Eggplant,” some said, “maroon,” “magenta,”or “burgundy.” When it came to my turn, I said “Red.” “Red!” said Gail with disdain. This was clearly not the right answer, and she dropped the whole line of inquiry.

    My fellow students and I called her Miss Kelly to her face, but referred to her as Gail in private conversations. Anthropology students talked about little else. Our constant analysis was fueled by reports of sightings and encounters. Of course we noticed that her favorite students were men and that her most frequent companions were gay men, and we had lots of theories about why this would be. Miss Kelly always had sour comments for ultra-feminine or overtly feminist students. Cathy Deikman used to come to every Peoples of the Pacific class 15 or 20 minutes late, usually wearing a tight white tank top. Handing out a reading list, Miss Kelly said, “Well, Miss Deikman ought to be sloping along any minute now…” When a woman (Catherine Parker?) pulled out her knitting during Social Theory class, Miss Kelly stopped in her tracks and said, “Miss Parker, one thing I will not tolerate in class is knitting!” Of course Catherine hastily put it away. Miss Kelly also hated smoking, so even though we smoked in every other classroom, we avoided it in hers. Once, though, several of us boldly lit up at once at the beginning of a Gail Kelly class. She began with “And now, if this little affectation is over…” A guy named Chip Krakoff completely oblivious to the unspoken social rules of Gail’s classes. He even sometimes ate his lunch in class, ignoring her glares or the warning cringes of his fellow students.

    Miss Kelly said proudly, “I teach by public humiliation.” I have to agree, though, with the writer who said that Gail never humiliated someone who didn’t deserve it. I managed to avoid being tortured by her, but I was terrified it would happen someday.
    As a result, I studied like crazy for her classes. I knew that she had an uncanny nose for sniffing out students who had not done the reading. Before every class, I read the assignment twice and prepared something to say – a question, a small comment – in case Gail turned to me with “All right, Professor Mason, suppose you start us off today…” My ritual on Gail-class days was to go to the coffee shop and get a donut and coffee, smoke several cigarettes, then lie down on a couch in the old student union to read and perhaps get in a nap. On those days I always found it hard to breathe deeply.

    I was particularly frightened of her Advanced Social Anthropology class, because there were no papers. Our whole grade was based on what we said in class, in addition to “spontaneous” prestations, i.e.presentations about relevant topics.

    Miss Kelly dispensed bits of wisdom to us, and no one ever dared to argue with her. She said she had a friend who wanted to try every kind of food in the world before she died. Miss Kelly’s response was, “Who would want to die fat?”

  10. Bill Peck’s avatar

    At the faculty lunch honoring Gail’s retirement I told the following story, which I mentioned I had never before then told Gail: once I used her office for a week at the end of the summer when mine was not available. I noticed a letter on her desk, mostly copvered by other papers, but beginning in a very interesting way — so I uncovered it and read the rest. A friend in the business wrote that he had been talking to Prof. Famous Anthro’ist (I forget now whom [since i’m writing in honor of Gail, i have to write “whom”]) and had asked him if he knew Gail Kelly. “Oh yes,” said Prof Famous”, I know Gail Kelly. She is a famous teacher.”
    Afterward Gail told me I was well on my way to becoming a social scientist – I was reading other people’s papers.

  11. Bill Peck’s avatar

    I got to know Edward Shils through Gail, who got him to spend a semester at Reed in the 80s, and then I was in an NEH seminar of his for professors, on the sociology of intellectuals. I organized a coffee hour after the seminar because it was so hard for the students to get a word in while Shils held forth, fascinatingly. (I asked the group of profs from all over whether they had grown up with books in the house and whether there were earlier college grads in their families: the answer for all to both questions was no, except for me and my bookish (but non-graduate) parents. Ergo soc. can’t explain “intellectuals”.)
    In a conversation that summer Shils observed that Reed seemed a good college but that he had never met anyone “really first rate” (said with a virtual heavy Oxbridge accent) from there – “except Miss Kelly, of course.”

  12. Sharon Pinkerton’s avatar

    The boys and I (Sharon) of the Pink Table Company recently learned of the death of our first and only customer. We made our first delivery to Gail Kelly Memorial Day weekend of 1977 and after that made several home and postal deliveries, ending in 2000. We will miss her greatly and wish to make a request: Could you serve the food and drink on a pink table, and perhaps you could have flamingo feathers in the air.
    with sadness, we now sign off forever,
    Sharon and the boys of the PTC

  13. Chip Krakoff’s avatar

    I, like most people, occasionally Google my own name to see what pops up. I was quite surprised to see my name on a blog devoted to Gail Kelly as a guy “completely oblivious to the unspoken social rules of Gail’s classes. He even sometimes ate his lunch in class, ignoring her glares or the warning cringes of his fellow students.”

    I don’t exactly recall this event (or did it happen many times?) though I do remember I sometimes would bring a bag of clementines or tangerines to class and pass them around.

    Glares and warning cringes aside, I got good grades from her, especially in Weberian Themes in Social Anthropology, which is one of the two or three best classes I ever took in 18 years of education (another was 17th century French drama by Sam Danon and the other was a class in religious symbolism by Robert Segal who was denied tenure at Reed but later got it at Stanford).

    Most of the remarks about Gail are correct. Though an Anthropology major (with Gail as my faculty but not my thesis advisor), I never shared in the total fascination – obsession? – with her that many others in the department had. I also never felt the intense fear that other seem to have felt and in fact I don’t recall that any of her criticisms – of me at any rate – were all that harsh.

    What redeemed her withering criticism was that she applied the same high standards to herself as she did to others. Back in those days before self-esteem became the major goal of human endeavor she dared to demand and expect excellence and to criticize those who failed to achieve it. Plus, she had style, so her insults were worth hearing, even if directed at oneself.

    As for pleasing her, once she knew that I shared her appreciation of the music of the great avant-garde jazz pianist Cecil Taylor she perhaps decided I was not completely beyond redemption. She did encourage me not to apply to graduate school in anthropology, for which advice I am forever in her debt.

  14. Kaori O'Connor’s avatar

    Dear Alex,
    Your memoir of Gail made me laugh out loud – a laugh of delight and recognition. Capturing Gail is like capturing quicksilver, but you did it. I remember a joke she told in Anthro Theory. The anthropologist was sitting at the edge of a clearing, watching all the natives in the village perform a ritual. Then he noticed a native sitting on a log, not far away. ‘Why aren’t you dancing in the clearing like everyone else?’ the anthropologist asked him. ‘Oh, I don’t go in for all of that’ the native replied. Cue for one of Gail’s cat-like smiles. I adored Gail. She was and is a goddess. So, going back to the Anthropology of Fashion, there should be some sartorial way of marking membership in her cult. I suppose a t-shirt is the only thing that would fit us all. Black? Red? Customised with rhinestones? Striped? Printed with a symbol, and if so, what? What do you think she’d say? Thanks for the memory. Aloha, Kaori

  15. chris brown’s avatar

    I enjoyed reading the memorial to Gail Kelly. I was one of her students, and I recognized much of my own experiences in the various musings here. I agree, for instance, that although she could be cruel (more than once I witnessed her reduce students in her classes to tears), she was also intellectually demanding, and I learned a great deal from her. She doesn’t make my list of all-time best teachers, largely because of her complete lack of participation/feedback/guidance on my thesis, but it’s a close call.
    However I disagree with one claim I’ve read here: that she did what was best for her students. I was a good student; I got A’s in her classes; I passed my junior qual unconditionally the first time I took it (the only one in my cohort to do so). After I graduated, I decided that it would be a good idea to go out and see the world a little bit before trying grad school. After all, I’d gone straight from high school through Reed in four years. She was strongly opposed to that plan, telling me that “graduate schools want serious students, they don’t want you to go messing around somewhere.” I ignored her advice and went to live in Japan, and to travel pretty extensively in Nepal, Thailand, Korea, and Indonesia. Then I was ready to go to graduate school. I asked Gail for a letter of recommendation; I even took the unusual step of asking her directly if she would write me a favorable letter or not, to which she replied that she would.
    I was rejected from every school I applied to in that first year. I was a little surprised until one professor who’d been part of an admissions review committee took pity on me and told me about the contents of her letter, which stated that I was not a serious student, was hostile to the discipline of anthropology, and they shouldn’t take me. I subsequently asked Gail if it was true that’s what she’d written, and she said it was.
    So I can’t join in the ranks of students praising Gail Kelly for her intellectual rigor or honesty, and it is simply bizarre to say that she was supportive of her students in general. I would have respected her if she’d had the guts to tell me to my face that her ‘recommendation’ would be negative, but the fact that she lied to me made a mockery of all her hard-nosed posturing in the classroom. Sure, we read some materials quite closely, and I still value that, though I now know how inaccurate some of her readings and critiques were. But I’ve had truly great, intellectually rigorous teachers, at reed and elsewhere, and she wasn’t one of them.
    Oh, by the way, the next year I applied without her letter of recommendation and was accepted to several good schools. And every other professor I’ve ever asked has said going out in the world for some direct experience rather than heading straight to grad school is not only a good idea, it’s a huge positive factor on an application to study anthropology. I’m currently writing up my dissertation based on Fulbright-Hays sponsored research in Java, and I’m sure Gail wouldn’t have approved.

  16. Michael’s avatar

    Chris Brown’s recollections are perfectly consistent with the Gail Kelly I knew as an undergraduate in the late sixties and early seventies, when she was bumping up against the tail-end of her White Goddess phase. (Memo to Alex: Even then, she wasn’t all that, though she obviously took a different view.) I give to Harvard and not to Reed at least partly because of how I feel about a school that celebrates Kelly as “a model teacher.”

    I can’t and wouldn’t quarrel with those above who credit Kelly with helping them in their careers. But I wonder about all those other students — the majority, I would think — who were also paying customers at Reed. Did they get their money’s worth from a teacher who was so pathologically rude and aggressive? (Not something that could be said about the courses taught by Sam Danon — to pick a name out of the hat — or Owen Ulph, John Tomsich, Price Zimmerman, Bill Peck, the great Ed Garlan, or even crazy old Seth Ulman.) I can’t remember — did Gail Kelly have her own Hum 101 sections? She must not have, or the trees in front of Eliot would have been festooned with dangling 18-year-olds every other week.

    Looking back, I remember all too many Reed professors who blatantly exploited their teenage students — some by seducing them, others by “tormenting” them, and at least a couple who could manage both feats at once. I realize that most of you feel those “torments” were all for the good — are you now closet Benthamites? — but how many of you really think that Kelly did it to help you rather to gratify something broken in herself? If we are summing up a life, don’t motives still matter?

    P.S. Who was someone named “Kelly” to slur the Scots?

  17. Sharon Pinkerton’s avatar

    perhaps the love many of us felt for Gail Kelly is a variation on Stockholm Syndrome

  18. Alex’s avatar

    I’ve often thought there might be more than a little to truth to that idea, Sharon.

  19. anna’s avatar

    I never her had her – but she coined one of my most favorite phrases. After a friend failed the qual, she said, “Have you considered dance?” Far better than “don’t quit your day job.” Rest in peace Gail!

  20. Barnard Gage’s avatar

    I was one of the men Gail Kelly could reduce to tears. That was so then. And apparently her influence can still reach out and do it to me now. This is so even though our orbits on campus were only tangentially related.

    I first met Kelly at my freshman orientation. Somehow I found myself in individual conversation with her about my future plans on campus. Hoping for approval, I, nevertheless, ventured to ask her if a combined major in history and anthropology was thinkable, saying that I thought it would be fun to apply ethnological methods to historical research. Her sarcasm convinced me that it was in fact not thinkable. Over a decade after my graduation my favorite professor as an upperclassman told me that what she really wanted from me was an intellectual defense and that if she had received it she would have been delighted. I only half believed Michael MacDonald, so the reference to her interest in the Annales School is of considerable interest. (Kierstadt came after I graduate.) Still it seems like a lot to ask of someone just leaving the home. And I knew nothing about her opinion of freshmen in general.

    Finding her linked to John Leadley is also evocative. Leadley was the only person on campus who could share with me a first hand acquantaince of the Lake Wobegon-like town in which he had been an undergraduate and I a faculty brat. More importantly, I owe to Leadley the recognition that mathematics can indeed be an attractive field to one seeking to lead an intellectual life. Though it did not change my direction, the Introduction to Mathematical Reasoning and his Paidaeia class were eye-opening. Having mostly reverted to math phobia I have still to remind myself of how those classes felt.

    I met Kelly again as an upperclassman. The first time in a class in philosophy of the social sciences, which she co-taught with Bill Peck. They appeared to share the load unequally, though, and I dealt mostly with Peck. Both of the classes I took from Peck challenged me to think, and they continue to assert an influence on me to stop and ponder my assumptions. The second time was in her Peoples of the Pacific class, which I took to fulfill my distribution requirements. I always thought it was a mistake to take it, but allowed myself to be cajoled into it. I still think I might have done better to take Vaucher’s offering. Kelly’s sarcasm—rather than any amount of work—seemed to add another irritant to the lot of a senior struggling with his thesis.

    Yet for all that our interactions were marginal I have found the writings about her life’s work fascinating from the first. I do not agree with the suggestion that our affection for her is a case of Stockholm’s syndrome. Quite the contrary. The easiest emotion for me to feel is resentment for her. It was a surprise, then, to discover another opposing emotion. I’d like to suggest that Kelly was a really a sort of Pandora’s box and that once all the horrors have past something in her life is left that emits a warm and surprisingly gentle glow.

  21. Peter Mason’s avatar

    Thanks to the originator of this tribute.

    - Prof Kelly introduced me to anthropology. As a math major (‘79 thesis w/ John Leadley), the two anthro. classes I took were eye opening.

    - She ran a really good conference, one of the best I had at Reed.

    - I saw at Reed, and heard later, that she cut people down. I’m sorry that her great teaching skills had that downside.

    - It may have been hard to be a female academic during Prof Kelly’s era. I know that many excellent female Profs at Reed seemed to err on the side of being “TOUGH.” This is in the same way that a female US President would have to do so, today or in the forseeable future.

    An anecdote: in the mid 90’s I heard that she was the last professor at Reed who refused to go online. Steve Koblik (Pres at the time) stated this with approval. I, as a longtime technology worker, completely agree.