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Thank you, Alex.
John Leadley also died this spring. He and his work had only “half” the impact on me that Gail Kelly’s did on you: he was just the man who made me realize that I wanted to be a mathematician (and specifically an algebraist). He and I never spoke much after that sophomore-year class in Abstract Algebra that Kira and Nick took with me. Meister was his student; I merely soaked up the esthetic from him: abstraction, functors, categories.
I’m disappointed with myself that I never told John what he meant to me and how he shaped my career, my life. I know that Gail knew what an impact she had on you, and I know she was proud of it.
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In honor of Professor Kelly’s memory (and she is the only Reed professor I do not refer to by first name) I wanted to expand on some of your reminiscences.
When Professor Kelly dressed me down for being Scottish it was “raised entirely on apples, oatmeal and whiskey.” Which was a little insulting before I realized that I had, in fact, consumed each of those things within the last week. The fact that Adam Smith did not appear in the Intro syllabus could be taken by a random reader to mean she did not like Smith. Quite the contrary, she was an involved and welcome participant in the Scottish Enlightenment class she audited and was obviously appreciative of Smith. Finally, when Professor Kelly talked about the Beaver clan it was much funnier. In discussing totemic animals, she said that since the Brown Beaver bus line passed by Reed we would all be “people of the beaver” and as such we would not eat any beaver. She expounded, “One would not expect Bo (a bright, female, anthro major in the class) to be walking around with a bit of beaver hanging out of her mouth.”
Her expectation of class attendance, that you should call and ask permission not to show up, terrified me so much that it was the only class at Reed for which I attended every session. This led to an embarrassing episode where I was so ill and high on cough suppressant that the only recollection I have of the class is speaking academic gibberish and not being able to stop. Professor Kelly would call on students who did not want to talk, usually to flush them out and expose their ignorance or lack of preparation. But sometimes it was to expose shy, but bright students, who just didn’t talk that much. As for those who were pilloried in class, tough shit – you should have done the reading.
I really liked Professor Kelly. I wasn’t an anthro major so the gauntlet Alex describes above didn’t exist for me. But I never achieved at any level of scholarship with cool, laid back professors – only the demanding ones. I just wish I had sent her those dozen roses I had always thought of sending.
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Are you sure her middle name is/was Margaret? I’m convinced it was Monica, though I can see how she might have kept that quiet, particularly in recent years. I have to tell you I laughed until I cried reading your descriptions. The bit about wearing white after Labor Day had me on the floor. I’m a female advisee from 25 years before your time. Female advisees were rare then, too. And though she was eccentric and demanding even as a much younger woman, I think I’m lucky to have made it through when I did. But then my thesis was the foundation for my dissertation, so there may have been a point to those demands after all.
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Thanks for this remembrance, Alex. Gail’s death is a colossal blow. She was one of anthropology’s enduring unforgettable personalities, she was 100% committed to her students, she was in absolute control of her subject matter to a degree that is rare anywhere, and she is absolutely and completely irreplaceable.
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I’ve lost a classmate. Actually, Gail was a year behind me, but David French and Howard Jolly didn’t have so many students then; we knew each other very well. Some of us drank red wine and listened to Pete Seeger on the floor of an apartment off of 39th street. But not Gail. She early established a conventional place for herself, which Edward Shils made holy. She was not part of our left wing position.
Gail had a sharp tongue and little time for those she thought witless. I loved to gossip with her. Students and faculty were both fair game. We kidded with professial discourse and shared a sense of unquestionable superiority. Yes, we were superior then. I hope she had a happy private life afterward.
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Confort food and the dialectic
Karen Tosi and I were not Gail’s students. Answering the question why I dressed like Oscar Wilde, it was simply because he looked so damn good. Our friendship with Gail blossomed after Reed. Phil Murthe and Gail would appear at the Towne Crier for martinis and conversations cribbed from Noel Coward several times a week. Martinis and delicate double entendres were the order of the day, followed by soul healing pot roast and au gratin potatos.
Phil is long gone, but Gail adopted us when we returned from grad school. Gradually, she defined her role as our cultural arbatrix. It was her intervention that caused us to buy Rex Aragon’s house. When she had advisory meetings with the manager of Saks or Tiffany’s, we would learn the plans for our affluent lifestyle from the source.
Gail was a frequent visitor at dinner. Often we would find her sitting at our table at the Heathman even before we arrived or knew she had been invited.
Above all, there was the conversation. To misquote Milton Friedman, “We are all polymaths now.” I will miss her for many resasons, but not least the loss of a foil for my analysis of Wa’habism and economic development.
On Thursday we hosted a fund raiser for Our House and when the bell rang early, I truly expected Gail to greet me with a trenchaqnt comment and a request for a dry martini. God, I wish she had haunted us just a bit in this way.
Lance Mars and I are discussing a wake for Gail tomorrow at breakfast. Send us your ideas to robert@mresearch.com or marrsl@hasson.com with your advice. I, personally, am leaning towards Saphire gin in the St. Johns room at the Heathman. Perhaps Gail will attend. I’ll keep a glass filled just in case.
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REMEMBERING GAIL KELLY
I went to Reed between 1972 and 1977, and Gail Kelly was an important part of my education. I took five classes with her: Introduction to Anthropology, Peoples of the Pacific (PeepPac), Advanced Social Anthropology, Anthro Theory, and Weberian Themes in Anthro. I never did take Peasant Societies, although I feel as if I did because Miss Kelly was always referring it in her other classes. My Reed thesis was an attempt to apply Victor Turner’s methodological concept of the social drama to the early 20th-century Hopi. I started out with Miss Kelly as my thesis advisor, but when she went on sabbatical in January I finished the thesis with David French. Miss Kelly’s comment on my topic was that if I could pull it off, “we’re all going to be rich!†Sadly, this hasn’t happened yet.
Even as an ignorant freshman in Intro to Anthro, I could see that Miss Kelly was presenting a rather skewed picture of anthropology. We skipped almost all the American anthropologists and went right to Durkheim. I was a tabula rasa, though, and Durkheimian concepts like anomie and complementary and segmentary solidarity underlie my entire thinking about society. It wasn’t until I was in graduate school that I heard “structure-functionalist†used as an insult. I am grateful for the years with Miss Kelly before I heard that s-f was bad.
The first time I saw Gail Kelly was on the first day of Intro Anthro in 1972, probably after Labor Day. She was wearing a sailor-striped knit top and a snowy white skirt. I knew nothing about fashion, but I was quite impressed by this outfit and subsequent ones.
I can imagine that Miss Kelly never had anything but contempt for my mode of dress, hairstyles, and general presentation of self. I remember her looking one of my 70s-girl ensembles–bandanna on lank hair, patched sweater, homemade ankle-length corduroy skirt, and worn-out hiking boots—up and down with interested horror.Gail was present at a visit to someone’s (Dell and Ginny Hymes?) mountain cabin with Michael Silverstein, David French, and some other people. Jena Camp, Lydie Brissonet, and I were the only students, included because of our employment as Dr. French’s assistants (he wittily shouted “I brought the girls!†as we entered the room). Gail and Michael Silverstein donned aprons to serve the food and drink. Gail declared with passion that the only fashionable women these days were transvestites.
In class one time, in order to demonstrate that men and women perceive colors differently, she asked us all to name the color of Wendell Scott’s shirt. “Eggplant,†some said, “maroon,†“magenta,â€or “burgundy.†When it came to my turn, I said “Red.†“Red!†said Gail with disdain. This was clearly not the right answer, and she dropped the whole line of inquiry.
My fellow students and I called her Miss Kelly to her face, but referred to her as Gail in private conversations. Anthropology students talked about little else. Our constant analysis was fueled by reports of sightings and encounters. Of course we noticed that her favorite students were men and that her most frequent companions were gay men, and we had lots of theories about why this would be. Miss Kelly always had sour comments for ultra-feminine or overtly feminist students. Cathy Deikman used to come to every Peoples of the Pacific class 15 or 20 minutes late, usually wearing a tight white tank top. Handing out a reading list, Miss Kelly said, “Well, Miss Deikman ought to be sloping along any minute now…†When a woman (Catherine Parker?) pulled out her knitting during Social Theory class, Miss Kelly stopped in her tracks and said, “Miss Parker, one thing I will not tolerate in class is knitting!†Of course Catherine hastily put it away. Miss Kelly also hated smoking, so even though we smoked in every other classroom, we avoided it in hers. Once, though, several of us boldly lit up at once at the beginning of a Gail Kelly class. She began with “And now, if this little affectation is over…†A guy named Chip Krakoff completely oblivious to the unspoken social rules of Gail’s classes. He even sometimes ate his lunch in class, ignoring her glares or the warning cringes of his fellow students.
Miss Kelly said proudly, “I teach by public humiliation.†I have to agree, though, with the writer who said that Gail never humiliated someone who didn’t deserve it. I managed to avoid being tortured by her, but I was terrified it would happen someday.
As a result, I studied like crazy for her classes. I knew that she had an uncanny nose for sniffing out students who had not done the reading. Before every class, I read the assignment twice and prepared something to say – a question, a small comment – in case Gail turned to me with “All right, Professor Mason, suppose you start us off today…†My ritual on Gail-class days was to go to the coffee shop and get a donut and coffee, smoke several cigarettes, then lie down on a couch in the old student union to read and perhaps get in a nap. On those days I always found it hard to breathe deeply.I was particularly frightened of her Advanced Social Anthropology class, because there were no papers. Our whole grade was based on what we said in class, in addition to “spontaneous†prestations, i.e.presentations about relevant topics.
Miss Kelly dispensed bits of wisdom to us, and no one ever dared to argue with her. She said she had a friend who wanted to try every kind of food in the world before she died. Miss Kelly’s response was, “Who would want to die fat?â€
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At the faculty lunch honoring Gail’s retirement I told the following story, which I mentioned I had never before then told Gail: once I used her office for a week at the end of the summer when mine was not available. I noticed a letter on her desk, mostly copvered by other papers, but beginning in a very interesting way — so I uncovered it and read the rest. A friend in the business wrote that he had been talking to Prof. Famous Anthro’ist (I forget now whom [since i'm writing in honor of Gail, i have to write "whom"]) and had asked him if he knew Gail Kelly. “Oh yes,” said Prof Famous”, I know Gail Kelly. She is a famous teacher.”
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I got to know Edward Shils through Gail, who got him to spend a semester at Reed in the 80s, and then I was in an NEH seminar of his for professors, on the sociology of intellectuals. I organized a coffee hour after the seminar because it was so hard for the students to get a word in while Shils held forth, fascinatingly. (I asked the group of profs from all over whether they had grown up with books in the house and whether there were earlier college grads in their families: the answer for all to both questions was no, except for me and my bookish (but non-graduate) parents. Ergo soc. can’t explain “intellectuals”.)
In a conversation that summer Shils observed that Reed seemed a good college but that he had never met anyone “really first rate” (said with a virtual heavy Oxbridge accent) from there – “except Miss Kelly, of course.” -
The boys and I (Sharon) of the Pink Table Company recently learned of the death of our first and only customer. We made our first delivery to Gail Kelly Memorial Day weekend of 1977 and after that made several home and postal deliveries, ending in 2000. We will miss her greatly and wish to make a request: Could you serve the food and drink on a pink table, and perhaps you could have flamingo feathers in the air.
with sadness, we now sign off forever,
Sharon and the boys of the PTC -
I, like most people, occasionally Google my own name to see what pops up. I was quite surprised to see my name on a blog devoted to Gail Kelly as a guy “completely oblivious to the unspoken social rules of Gail’s classes. He even sometimes ate his lunch in class, ignoring her glares or the warning cringes of his fellow students.”
I don’t exactly recall this event (or did it happen many times?) though I do remember I sometimes would bring a bag of clementines or tangerines to class and pass them around.
Glares and warning cringes aside, I got good grades from her, especially in Weberian Themes in Social Anthropology, which is one of the two or three best classes I ever took in 18 years of education (another was 17th century French drama by Sam Danon and the other was a class in religious symbolism by Robert Segal who was denied tenure at Reed but later got it at Stanford).
Most of the remarks about Gail are correct. Though an Anthropology major (with Gail as my faculty but not my thesis advisor), I never shared in the total fascination – obsession? – with her that many others in the department had. I also never felt the intense fear that other seem to have felt and in fact I don’t recall that any of her criticisms – of me at any rate – were all that harsh.
What redeemed her withering criticism was that she applied the same high standards to herself as she did to others. Back in those days before self-esteem became the major goal of human endeavor she dared to demand and expect excellence and to criticize those who failed to achieve it. Plus, she had style, so her insults were worth hearing, even if directed at oneself.
As for pleasing her, once she knew that I shared her appreciation of the music of the great avant-garde jazz pianist Cecil Taylor she perhaps decided I was not completely beyond redemption. She did encourage me not to apply to graduate school in anthropology, for which advice I am forever in her debt.
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Dear Alex,
Your memoir of Gail made me laugh out loud – a laugh of delight and recognition. Capturing Gail is like capturing quicksilver, but you did it. I remember a joke she told in Anthro Theory. The anthropologist was sitting at the edge of a clearing, watching all the natives in the village perform a ritual. Then he noticed a native sitting on a log, not far away. ‘Why aren’t you dancing in the clearing like everyone else?’ the anthropologist asked him. ‘Oh, I don’t go in for all of that’ the native replied. Cue for one of Gail’s cat-like smiles. I adored Gail. She was and is a goddess. So, going back to the Anthropology of Fashion, there should be some sartorial way of marking membership in her cult. I suppose a t-shirt is the only thing that would fit us all. Black? Red? Customised with rhinestones? Striped? Printed with a symbol, and if so, what? What do you think she’d say? Thanks for the memory. Aloha, Kaori -
I enjoyed reading the memorial to Gail Kelly. I was one of her students, and I recognized much of my own experiences in the various musings here. I agree, for instance, that although she could be cruel (more than once I witnessed her reduce students in her classes to tears), she was also intellectually demanding, and I learned a great deal from her. She doesn’t make my list of all-time best teachers, largely because of her complete lack of participation/feedback/guidance on my thesis, but it’s a close call.
However I disagree with one claim I’ve read here: that she did what was best for her students. I was a good student; I got A’s in her classes; I passed my junior qual unconditionally the first time I took it (the only one in my cohort to do so). After I graduated, I decided that it would be a good idea to go out and see the world a little bit before trying grad school. After all, I’d gone straight from high school through Reed in four years. She was strongly opposed to that plan, telling me that “graduate schools want serious students, they don’t want you to go messing around somewhere.†I ignored her advice and went to live in Japan, and to travel pretty extensively in Nepal, Thailand, Korea, and Indonesia. Then I was ready to go to graduate school. I asked Gail for a letter of recommendation; I even took the unusual step of asking her directly if she would write me a favorable letter or not, to which she replied that she would.
I was rejected from every school I applied to in that first year. I was a little surprised until one professor who’d been part of an admissions review committee took pity on me and told me about the contents of her letter, which stated that I was not a serious student, was hostile to the discipline of anthropology, and they shouldn’t take me. I subsequently asked Gail if it was true that’s what she’d written, and she said it was.
So I can’t join in the ranks of students praising Gail Kelly for her intellectual rigor or honesty, and it is simply bizarre to say that she was supportive of her students in general. I would have respected her if she’d had the guts to tell me to my face that her ‘recommendation’ would be negative, but the fact that she lied to me made a mockery of all her hard-nosed posturing in the classroom. Sure, we read some materials quite closely, and I still value that, though I now know how inaccurate some of her readings and critiques were. But I’ve had truly great, intellectually rigorous teachers, at reed and elsewhere, and she wasn’t one of them.
Oh, by the way, the next year I applied without her letter of recommendation and was accepted to several good schools. And every other professor I’ve ever asked has said going out in the world for some direct experience rather than heading straight to grad school is not only a good idea, it’s a huge positive factor on an application to study anthropology. I’m currently writing up my dissertation based on Fulbright-Hays sponsored research in Java, and I’m sure Gail wouldn’t have approved. -
Chris Brown’s recollections are perfectly consistent with the Gail Kelly I knew as an undergraduate in the late sixties and early seventies, when she was bumping up against the tail-end of her White Goddess phase. (Memo to Alex: Even then, she wasn’t all that, though she obviously took a different view.) I give to Harvard and not to Reed at least partly because of how I feel about a school that celebrates Kelly as “a model teacher.”
I can’t and wouldn’t quarrel with those above who credit Kelly with helping them in their careers. But I wonder about all those other students — the majority, I would think — who were also paying customers at Reed. Did they get their money’s worth from a teacher who was so pathologically rude and aggressive? (Not something that could be said about the courses taught by Sam Danon — to pick a name out of the hat — or Owen Ulph, John Tomsich, Price Zimmerman, Bill Peck, the great Ed Garlan, or even crazy old Seth Ulman.) I can’t remember — did Gail Kelly have her own Hum 101 sections? She must not have, or the trees in front of Eliot would have been festooned with dangling 18-year-olds every other week.
Looking back, I remember all too many Reed professors who blatantly exploited their teenage students — some by seducing them, others by “tormenting” them, and at least a couple who could manage both feats at once. I realize that most of you feel those “torments” were all for the good — are you now closet Benthamites? — but how many of you really think that Kelly did it to help *you* rather to gratify something broken in herself? If we are summing up a life, don’t motives still matter?
P.S. Who was someone named “Kelly” to slur the Scots?
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perhaps the love many of us felt for Gail Kelly is a variation on Stockholm Syndrome
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I was one of the men Gail Kelly could reduce to tears. That was so then. And apparently her influence can still reach out and do it to me now. This is so even though our orbits on campus were only tangentially related.
I first met Kelly at my freshman orientation. Somehow I found myself in individual conversation with her about my future plans on campus. Hoping for approval, I, nevertheless, ventured to ask her if a combined major in history and anthropology was thinkable, saying that I thought it would be fun to apply ethnological methods to historical research. Her sarcasm convinced me that it was in fact *not* thinkable. Over a decade after my graduation my favorite professor as an upperclassman told me that what she really wanted from me was an intellectual defense and that if she had received it she would have been delighted. I only half believed Michael MacDonald, so the reference to her interest in the Annales School is of considerable interest. (Kierstadt came after I graduate.) Still it seems like a lot to ask of someone just leaving the home. And I knew nothing about her opinion of freshmen in general.
Finding her linked to John Leadley is also evocative. Leadley was the only person on campus who could share with me a first hand acquantaince of the Lake Wobegon-like town in which he had been an undergraduate and I a faculty brat. More importantly, I owe to Leadley the recognition that mathematics can indeed be an attractive field to one seeking to lead an intellectual life. Though it did not change my direction, the Introduction to Mathematical Reasoning and his Paidaeia class were eye-opening. Having mostly reverted to math phobia I have still to remind myself of how those classes felt.
I met Kelly again as an upperclassman. The first time in a class in philosophy of the social sciences, which she co-taught with Bill Peck. They appeared to share the load unequally, though, and I dealt mostly with Peck. Both of the classes I took from Peck challenged me to think, and they continue to assert an influence on me to stop and ponder my assumptions. The second time was in her Peoples of the Pacific class, which I took to fulfill my distribution requirements. I always thought it was a mistake to take it, but allowed myself to be cajoled into it. I still think I might have done better to take Vaucher’s offering. Kelly’s sarcasm–rather than any amount of work–seemed to add another irritant to the lot of a senior struggling with his thesis.
Yet for all that our interactions were marginal I have found the writings about her life’s work fascinating from the first. I do not agree with the suggestion that our affection for her is a case of Stockholm’s syndrome. Quite the contrary. The easiest emotion for me to feel is resentment for her. It was a surprise, then, to discover another opposing emotion. I’d like to suggest that Kelly was a really a sort of Pandora’s box and that once all the horrors have past something in her life is left that emits a warm and surprisingly gentle glow.
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Thanks to the originator of this tribute.
- Prof Kelly introduced me to anthropology. As a math major (’79 thesis w/ John Leadley), the two anthro. classes I took were eye opening.
- She ran a really good conference, one of the best I had at Reed.
- I saw at Reed, and heard later, that she cut people down. I’m sorry that her great teaching skills had that downside.
- It may have been hard to be a female academic during Prof Kelly’s era. I know that many excellent female Profs at Reed seemed to err on the side of being “TOUGH.” This is in the same way that a female US President would have to do so, today or in the forseeable future.
An anecdote: in the mid 90′s I heard that she was the last professor at Reed who refused to go online. Steve Koblik (Pres at the time) stated this with approval. I, as a longtime technology worker, completely agree.

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